Thursday, August 28, 2014
Book Review: The Impressionist
Becoming The Masterpiece You Were Created To Be
Tim Clinton and Max Davis
I have many of Tim Clinton's books and use them all the time for reference, research papers, and companion reading to my counseling classes. They have a place of honor on the "I use these all the time and need easy access" bookcase. All of the books are in the Christian Counseling genre and full of life-changing Jesus-focused wisdom.
When I saw this novella the other day, I was interested to see how Clinton's insight and heart would be expressed in a work of fiction.
Wonderfully, of course!
This is a lovely textured paperback book, pretty pages designed to look old, very easy to read. I read it in two sittings and enjoyed every page.
Adam Camp is experiencing crisis. His marriage to Paige is in shambles, his son addicted to drugs, Adam's life is falling apart. After a fight with his wife, Adam storms out of his house in search of escape...and meets an eccentric old man in the park, a meeting that changes Adam's life.
Jim Ed paints Adam's portrait in the park, all the while imparting words Adam needs to hear in his spirit. That very day Adam will make a decision that will change his life one way or another, forever. Jim Ed recounts stories from his own life, decisions, injustices, and the impact the love of his life, his dear Christina made in his days. Adam walks away from the encounter with the Impressionist's portrait in hand (how did Jim Ed see him?), toward an uncertain future, with a new-found understanding of who he is, but no clear answers as to what he needs to do next. What does Adam do? Read the book- and may we all have an encounter with the Impressionist!
Sunday, December 15, 2013
Pumpkin Spice Dessert "Shots"
This is also super tasty, and super rich. A shot or liquor glass make the perfect serving size.
Pumpkin Spice Dessert "Shots"
8 oz mascarpone cheese
8 oz pumpkin spice cream cheese spread*
1 oz sweetened condensed milk
ginger snap cookies**
whipped cream or cool whip, if desired
Combine the cheeses and the condensed milk. The longer you beat this, the fluffier it becomes. Use a stand mixer and after ingredients are blended, mix on HIGH for about 5 minutes.
Spoon into the dessert glasses. Refrigerate. Top with the whipped cream and ginger snaps right before serving. Enjoy!
* I ran across this at Walmart - Great Value brand. One of my friends was not able to find this and substituted plain cream cheese spread and 2 teaspoons pumpkin pie spice.
** Since the shot glasses are small, Bud's Best cookies work great.
Sunday, June 23, 2013
Jesus - The Ultimate Life Coach
"There is a God who made you for a reason, and your life has profound meaning! We discover that meaning and purpose only when we make God the reference point of our lives."
Rick Warren
Jeremiah 29:11: For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for trouble, pain, shame, and grief..."
WAIT WAIT WAIT! DO OVER!!
"For I know the the thoughts that I think towards you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope."
Jeremiah 29:11 NKJV
Jesus was all about some change. Heck, He even split time in two! BC/AD. Before Christ. Anno Domini - in the year of the Lord. Can you do that?
He does not change, but He calls us to change to be like Him.
"For I am the Lord, I do not change; therefore you are not consumed, O sons of Jacob"
Malachi 3:6
He showed us what to do:
Matthew 3:13-17: the baptism of Jesus. Positive feedback - God was pleased.
Matthew 4 - Jesus was tempted. 40 days. 40 nights. Fasting. Tired and weak. Satan tempted Him. He resisted. And KEPT resisting.
STAND!
"Be strong in the Lord and in the strength of his might..." Ephesians 6:10-20. Read it, then do it.
Jesus showed us what to do- He stood on the Word.
Jesus.
An encounter with Jesus changed every person He saw
The leper
The centurion and his servant
Peter's mother-in-law
The men with demons
LAZARUS!
Some were healed immediately. Some had to make an effort, a contribution
The man with the withered hand had to reach out
The woman with the issue of blood had to 'fess up
The blind beggar had to tell Jesus he wanted to see
The man born blind had to wash the mud off
Why?
What makes them different?
I don't know, but let's look at it. The woman with the issue of blood needed restoration of her esteem and for the "locals" to see she was cool as far as Jesus was concerned. The blind beggar didn't know he was talking to Jesus THE CHRIST. He didn't even know who he was dealing with!
Some of these people were "brain stuck" in their situations. Jesus' touch was the point that identified their need (the woman at the well)
What about you? Ever done anything stupid? What did you do after? Learn from the experience and never do it again? Get "brain stuck" thinking that mistake now defines who you are?
I can't tell you why you are where you are. I can tell you that Jesus provided a way to wholeness in Him. We have to avoid getting "brain stuck" in the mess and allow change, make change, let Jesus do His work in us.
Do you know why horses in races wear blinders? So they can't see what's going on around them. So they can focus on what is right in front of them. So they can't get scared or sidetracked from their goal.
What do YOUR blinders make you focus on? Jesus, or some mistake, injustice, or pain?
What's your goal? Jesus is calling you- do you hear Him? Go ahead, answer the call. Jesus is the best Life Coach ever!
"Beloved, we are God's children now and what we will be has not yet appeared; but we know that when he appears we shall be like him, because we shall see his as he is. And everyone who thus hopes in him purifies himself as he is pure."
1 John 3:2,3
"Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come. ALL THIS FROM GOD"
2 Corinthians 5:17, 18. Emphasis mine.
Tuesday, May 14, 2013
Do You Hear What Lucy Hears?
Lucy heard Aslan calling her name. The sound made her heart beat faster. She was even brave enough to leave the safety of her family to go search for him.
"...Scarcely had I passed them when I found him whom my soul loves. I held him and would not let him go..." Song of Solomon 3:4
"She rushed to him. She felt her heart would burst if she lost a moment." C. S. Lewis, Prince Caspian
Longing, desire to spend time with One whom she knows and loves. She recognized his voice. It starts on page 378. Go read it. Lucy had to seek Aslan. He called her, but she had to find him. Through the dancing trees (what little girl wouldn't be distracted by dancing trees??), through the dark, into the unknown.
When is the last time you sought Him like that? He will call, He always does. Do you hear past the television, radio, work load, party, or whatever you have going on to hear Him calling you to spend time with Him? Would you brave the dark and the dancing trees to get to Him?
He's calling....find Him. It will change your world.
Monday, May 13, 2013
How Big is YOUR God?
C. S. Lewis.
The Chronicles of Narnia.
WHO doesn't love them??
C.S. Lewis used his wonderful story-telling ability to speak Truth to the young, and young-at-heart. If you haven't read the books (or seen the movies), stop what you're doing and check them out. Look for Truth in them. It's there.
"Thus says the LORD: Heaven is my throne, and the earth is my footstool; what is the house that you would build for me, and what is the place of my rest?" Isaiah 66:1 ESV
When we are children, little children, it is easy to believe in a God who is big enough to hold the world in His hands, most children even know the words to the song (He's got the whole world.....). Why is it so easy to believe when we are so small? Because we ARE so small! Everything is bigger than we are, except the little brother or sister that mom and dad brought home from the hospital.
As we get taller, supposedly smarter, we can "logic" God into a smaller, easier to digest size. Some of us get to full height and manage to smush God into a tiny little box we can put on the shelf. We have logic-ed ourselves into containing God in a way that our brains can wrap around and make sense of. Because God works that way. NOT!
Read the quote. It doesn't say "every year you that you get taller". It says "every year you grow, you will find me bigger". What's the difference?
When we spend time with God we GROW. When we spend time in His Word and absorb the wonders that ARE who He is, we grow. And as we grow, we can see Him getting bigger and bigger. It's all optical illusion- He is all. God is ALL. We just have to grow enough to see it, like we did when we were little and loved reading fairy tales. When we grow into Him like a child.
Anyone up for a children's book?
May 13, 1987
Twenty-six years ago today my brother died. There are times it seems a lifetime ago. There are other times that is seems like it just happened.
You know, you never "get over it".
"There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are the messengers of overwhelming grief, of deep contrition, and unspeakable love."
Washington Irving
I pray peace to each of you who grieves the loss of a loved one. May God wrap you in His arms and you feel His overwhelming love and amazing grace.
My brother, you are much loved and very missed.
Wednesday, May 1, 2013
Getting Wrecked By The Homeless

God settles the solitary in a home; he leads out the prisoners to prosperity, but the rebellious dwell in a parched land.
Psalm 68:6
"J" at the park. Alone in the corner crying. She's a beautiful woman. Another who didn't/couldn't come up at altar time. Jesus saw her tears. She was/is trying to get home to Mississippi due to some financial problems. Her car was repossessed Friday- she's trying to get home and had a bus ticket to leave this morning and "just happened" to see us at the park.
You can tell she is trying to be strong.
"D" finally got his poem to me. It's about Jesus loving him, dying for him- he was searching for love and ran into Someone who was willing to die for him. That is huge. In the suburbs, safe at home, can it be as fully understood as it can by someone who lives on the streets, or at least, not in conventional housing? Dying is a very real possibility. We all will, but we all don't come face to face with it that often. Does "D"s understanding how much Jesus loves him mean he will completely change his life?
Historically, the answer is "no".
I believe all things are possible with God and that can change the man's destiny. If the man allows it. God is no respecter of persons, but He is a gentleman and He won't force the man to change. I don't know if Sunday mornings at the park are the only times people show the man Jesus, but Jesus is talking to the man's heart. We pray the man heeds the whisper that is calling his name and allows the Lord to have all the control of his life.
A few nights ago I saw one of our homeless men give his coat to another man who didn't have one. It was an amazing sight, "That was awesome, " I tell him. "Dude was cold. I can get another coat," he says.
A pre-warmed coat. THAT is Jesus-love.
It's also depending on his needs being met. Who else would have given up their coat like that?
Another woman we serve brought us three coats she had acquired before service started. She had gotten them for another lady who either didn't want them or didn't need them. She wanted to give them to us to make sure they went to someone who needed them. How cool is that?
Jesus says they know Him. They don't need us always pounding Jesus at them. They know Jesus and they depend on Him. Some need a release from a rebellious spirit. They need someone to show them how to get out of where they are. They need the will to change. Then they need someone willing to teach them.
Who's willing?
Wednesday, March 20, 2013
It Does Matter What I Think
"Leader."
Many of us spend a great deal of time learning as much as we can so we can be good leaders. How many leadership books do you have on your shelf? How many blogs, audiobooks, and podcasts can you cram into a day? Been to any good seminars lately?
Jesus was a great leader. He, however, is perfect, so I suppose that is to be expected.
What does being a "leader" mean? This is an interactive post today, so I really want to know what you think.
For me, a leader is someone I respect and trust, a wiser-than-I-am person who will impart knowledge and encourage me to be the best that I can be. Now, this is Yvonne speaking to you, so you know the qualification list in actuality is much longer.
How do we build trust? Relationship. How do relationships work? Back and forth communication. Learning the other person. Hearing what they have to say.
Did you hear...or read (since this is a blog)...that?
You need to hear what the other person has to say.
What do you have to do to hear? You have to listen. Listening means paying attention to the words being spoken without trying to plan your next sentence. Ask questions. "What do you mean when you say ____?" "I'm trying to make sure I understood what you said. I think I heard you say ______, is that right?"
What happens when you don't listen? You will not connect, you will not grow, the other person will not grow, and there will be no relationship. In the work place, if you won't listen, please don't dare ask why your employees are not engaged. It goes together.
Today's blog is being brought to you by an interaction I heard earlier today. A leader brought a coworker a specific set of instructions. They were terribly wrong, mind you, and had those instructions been carried out....well, I don't even want to think about the nightmare that would follow! Coworker tried to point out the problems.
Leader says, "It doesn't matter what you think."
Did you read that?
Actually it does matter. It always matters what someone thinks. And we need to listen. The thoughts may accurate or they may not be accurate due to a lack of facts or discernment. Active listening by a leader and discussion will clear that up right away.
Was the issue resolved? Yes. By way a of a leader who listens.
My question to you, Reader/Leader is: how many people do you think will willingly follow that first "leader"? Would you want to? What do you think the employees think about that leader and his/her abilities to lead them to professional success?
Tuesday, February 5, 2013
When People Think You've Lost Your Mind
Friday, November 23, 2012
I Can See Clearly Now (or - I Got A New Windshield)
Thursday, November 1, 2012
The Sacred Meal The Ancient Practices Series (Review)
The Sacred MealThe Ancient Practices Series
By Nora Gallagher, Phyllis Tickle
Published by Thomas Nelson
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Wednesday, June 6, 2012
Dangerous Favor
Tuesday, May 29, 2012
Things I Learned From Betty Lou - You Need a Hot Skillet
Friday, May 25, 2012
Here Sits a Dreamer
Saturday, March 17, 2012
Green Velvet Cake Bites
Today we are playing with Green Velvet. Kind of like Red Velvet...but...well, you know...green.
Here is the basic guest list for this recipe:

1 Milk Chocolate Cake Mix (for the mix I used, you also need 3 eggs, 1 1/4 c water, and 1/3 c oil)
1 can cream cheese frosting
1 bottle green food coloring
2 tbsp cocoa (optional)
1 tsp vanilla (optional)
1 12 oz package white chocolate morsels
1 12 oz package semi sweet chocolate morsels
green sprinkles
Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Grease and flour a 9"x13" cake pan (I "floured" mine with extra cocoa). Combine water, oil, eggs, and cake mix and mix according to package directions (2 minutes). SLOWLY add the food coloring, and the cocoa and vanilla if desired. These pictures are from my first attempt, I used the cocoa and vanilla, and a whole bottle of the food coloring. Second test, I omitted the cocoa and used only 1/2 a bottle of food coloring, with only a minor depth of color change. Go with your personal preference on this one. Once food coloring is evenly distributed, pour into prepared pan and bake for recommended time (30-35 minutes) - check at 30 minutes- I found adding the cocoa, vanilla, and entire bottle of food coloring required 5 extra minutes baking time.

Isn't this an AWESOME green???
Once cake is removed from the oven, allow to cool. When completely cool, crumble the entire cake into a large bowl. Add 1/2 the cream cheese frosting. Remaining frosting can be refrigerated for later use. Or eaten with a spoon. Whatever.
Anyway....
Smush the crumbled cake and frosting together. I suppose you could use a spoon, but hands are much easier. Once thoroughly combined, roll this "dough" into balls and place on a cookie sheet or wire rack- temptation is to make them larger. Go smaller. The final cake bite is really rich and you don't want to overwhelm folks. Once rolling is complete, place the cookie sheet or wire rack in the refrigerator for 30 minutes to chill.
Melt one package of chocolate chips in a microwave safe bowl, 20 second intervals, stirring often. Be prepared to work fast. Have plenty of paper towels, toothpicks, and couple of teaspoons, the sprinkles, and wax or parchment paper ready to use. Place a ball on a toothpick and dip into the melted chocolate. Quickly coat and gently "jiggle" to remove excess chocolate. Place cake bite on paper. Use the teaspoon to fill in the hole from the toothpick. Add the sprinkles and you get something that looks like this.

Oh happy day!!!

And just so ya know, when you add the whole bottle of food coloring, you can tell exactly who has had a cake bite.

You have been warned :-)
Friday, March 2, 2012
Monday, February 20, 2012
Banana Pudding
Make sure you are prepared. I obviously was not, so these chocolate graham crackers are my substitute for vanilla wafers. You gotta love me!Here is Plan-B in case this pudding was a flop:
Triple Chocolate cake eventually covered in chocolate whipped icing. I'm sure we will figure out something to do with it....Anyway.
Banana Pudding
1/2 c sugar
1/3 c flour (scant measure, mine got too thick too fast; may reduce to 2 tbsp on the do-over)
3 egg yolks (save the white for the top!)
2 c milk
1/2 tsp vanilla
2 ripe bananas
vanilla wafers (I prefer Nilla wafers. Use what floats your boat. Or what you have on hand!)
3 reserved egg whites
dash of vanilla
1/2 c sugar (scant measure)
Whisk sugar and flour together in a saucepan. Add egg yolks, milk, and vanilla. Cook over medium heat, stirring constantly (important!!! keep stirring!) to prevent lumps. When sauce begins to thicken, remove from heat and set aside.
Place vanilla wafers (or graham crackers) in the bottom of a round casserole dish. Layer 1 sliced banana on top. Add or reduce bananas as you wish. I prefer fewer bananas, but added more for this experiment. Pour half of the sauce over the wafers and bananas, then repeat; wafers, banana, sauce.
Set aside. Now to the topping.
In a very clean (read zero oil residue) dry bowl, beat the reserved egg whites until slightly stiff. Add the vanilla, continue beating. Add half the sugar and beat some more. Add the last half of the sugar and beat until blended and the egg whites form very soft peaks. I realize that most meringue recipes call for cream of tartar. Not going there. My Nanny never used it and hers is what I am looking to recreate. If you want to use it, please do - all food creations belong to the creator and can be adapted as one sees fit. Dollop meringue on top of pudding - all the way to the edges of the bowl. Sprinkle with sugar before popping it in the oven to brown to meringue. 350 degree oven - DO NOT LEAVE UNATTENDED. When it decides to brown, it will brown VERY quickly.
This is wonderful freshly made warm, but also very good straight from the fridge.
Enjoy!
Thursday, February 2, 2012
Easy Peach Cobbler

Easiest cobbler recipe ever! I think this recipe came from my mom - I remember having it when I was young(er) and loved it then too! This is the only cobbler recipe I ever use.
This takes literally less than 10 minutes to get into the oven. Doesn't get much easier!
1 cup self-rising flour
1 cup sugar
1 cup milk
1 140z can of sliced peaches
1 stick of butter (not margarine)
Preheat over to 350 degrees. Melt the butter in your baking dish. The easiest way is to place the butter in the baking dish and put it in the oven while preheating is happening.
Mix together the flour and sugar with a whisk. Slowly add the milk 1/4 cup at a time, mixing well between additions.
Once the oven is preheated, pour the batter in the baking dish. Spoon sliced peaches on top, then drizzle the juice over the whole thing.
Bake until golden brown (approximately 1 hour). Careful! It's awesome, but very hot for a very long time!
Wednesday, January 25, 2012
Today...

I took my children to school because their bus was unaccounted for. This morning was the first time I've been down Old Springville Road and Deerfoot Parkway.
To my friends who live near me - I am so very grateful that you are here to read my post.
To those who are seeing video and pictures - it's far worse "in person."
To the young girl who is staying with us - I am so so very glad that you are with us and we got to have cheeseburgers together. And I am glad you are here to tell me you don't like strawberry cheesequake Blizzards :-D
My heart goes out to all those who have suffered loss this week. Prayers for your peace, safety, and speedy provision. Much love you all!
Peace
Friday, January 20, 2012
When blind eyes are opened...

Psalm 146 ESV
Put Not Your Trust in Princes
1 Praise the Lord!
Praise the Lord, O my soul!
2 I will praise the Lord as long as I live;
I will sing praises to my God while I have my being.
3 Put not your trust in princes,
in a son of man, in whom there is no salvation.
4 When his breath departs, he returns to the earth;
on that very day his plans perish.
5 Blessed is he whose help is the God of Jacob,
whose hope is in the Lord his God,
6 who made heaven and earth,
the sea, and all that is in them,
who keeps faith forever;
7 who executes justice for the oppressed,
who gives food to the hungry.
The Lord sets the prisoners free;
8 the Lord opens the eyes of the blind.
The Lord lifts up those who are bowed down;
the Lord loves the righteous.
Today I had the opportunity to spend some time with a young man who is on a radical journey with God. He is scheduled to have surgery in a few weeks. Surgeons will removed 50% of one lung and 20% of another. Keep him in your prayers.
I have watched this man grow over the past months since his diagnosis. He has been through fear, pain, suffering, guilt, the whole range of emotions. I cannot explain to you what happens when I listen to him talk now. God shows up so intently; I feel what's in this man's heart. He knows what he's living with now is a result of poor life choices and he accepts that (Jesus can heal him, pray for that). He also accepts that his Jesus loves him and intends to work mightily through him. I believe that! He opens his mouth and Word comes out. I love it! He's destined to preach.
He speaks of reaching those who are doing the things he used to do.
He speaks of telling them how much he hurt his body with what he's done.
He speaks of telling them how much Jesus loves them and can save them.
He's going to do it. Jesus wants him to.
And I want to watch him let Jesus work through him to reach the world.




